THIS IS FOR YOU IF MENOPAUSE IS DONE… AND YOU STILL DON’T FEEL LIKE YOU
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She had a bit about her. Opinions, energy, a proper laugh and getting dressed didn’t turn into a full-blown negotiation with herself.
She wasn’t overthinking everything.
She wasn’t just getting through the day.
But she didn’t disappear overnight, she just got buried under being sensible, under everyone else, under years of “it’s just easier if I…”
And now you’re here thinking…
👉 Is this just it now then?
No. You didn’t lose yourself. You just stopped backing yourself.
You’ve been putting yourself last for so long that having your own back quietly fell off the list, and it’s time to put it back where it belongs.
Not a glow-up. Not a “new you.” Not a load of bollocks about loving yourself while lighting a candle.
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Written by Janette Cass
Post-menopausal. Straight-talker. Founder of The Can’t Be Arsed Club (38,000 women and counting who feel exactly like you do)
With editorial interference from Dolly the cat, who thinks she’s in charge.
(She is, to be fair.)